Enneagram for Couples

Understand how your patterns interact and how to work together instead of against each other

Understanding Your Dynamic as Partners

You know your relationship has patterns - moments when you misunderstand each other, react in ways that don't make sense, or feel like you're speaking different languages. What if you could understand why?

The Enneagram reveals not just your individual patterns, but how those patterns interact in your relationship. It shows you why certain moments trigger conflict, where your natural strengths complement each other, and how to support each other instead of accidentally working against each other.

WHO THIS IS FOR:

This work is for couples who want to understand each other better - whether you're navigating a specific challenge, feeling disconnected, or just want tools to strengthen your relationship. You don't need to be in crisis. You just need to be curious about how you work together.

How It Works:

You'll each complete the Integrative Enneagram assessment - a comprehensive tool that identifies your core type and patterns. You'll receive a detailed couples report that shows:

- Your individual Enneagram types and what drives each of you

- How your types naturally interact (your strengths and challenges as a couple)

- Common triggers and where misunderstandings happen

- Practical strategies to support each other through differences

- How to work with your patterns instead of against them

Then we'll meet together for 90 minutes to explore what this means for your relationship and how to use these insights in real life.

INVESTMENT: $497

What's Next?:

After you book, you'll each receive a link to complete your assessment (takes about 20-40 minutes each).

Once both assessments are complete, I'll review your results and we'll schedule our 90-minute session together.

WHY THE ENNEAGRAM?

I've been an Accredited Enneagram Practitioner for 8 years and have worked with over a hundred clients - both individuals and couples - using this tool.

Here's what I know: Understanding your own type is powerful, but understanding how your types interact as a couple changes everything. The Enneagram shows you why certain moments trigger conflict, where you naturally complement each other, and what each of you needs to feel supported.

When you understand your patterns as a couple, you stop blaming each other for doing things "wrong." You stop expecting your partner to respond the way you would.

You just make small adjustments that help you work together instead of against each other.

That's transformation.

Questions?

Schedule a Free 15-Minute Exploration Call

Or Email me at janette at valentinocoaching.com